Personal Insights Cheat Sheet

A detailed cheat sheet including astrological insights, MBTI, love languages, Big Five traits, and more.

This is a cheatsheet for me, of common personality traits, that I have been asked in various settings.

Summary of Key Characteristics:

  • MBTI Focus Areas: Leadership, strategic communication, personal growth through exploration.
  • Big Five Personality Traits: Outgoing, ambitious, highly conscientious, and open, with a direct approach in social settings.
  • Love and Relationships: Physical touch and quality time are key to feeling connected. Highly compatible with partners who value intimacy and shared experiences.
  • Career and Public Life: Drawn towards nurturing yet leadership-oriented careers that emphasize decision-making, structure, and creating emotional security.

MBTI Personality Type: Commander (ENTJ-A)

CategoryDescription
OverviewThe Commander (ENTJ-A) is one of the 16 Myers-Briggs personality types, known for leadership, strategic thinking, and decisiveness. ENTJs are driven to lead others, set ambitious goals, and push boundaries to achieve success.
Key TraitsExtraverted: Energetic, outgoing, gains energy from social interactions.
Intuitive: Focuses on the big picture, enjoys exploring new possibilities.
Thinking: Makes decisions based on logic and objectivity.
Judging: Prefers structure, organization, and a clear plan of action.
StrengthsEfficient and Strategic: Optimizes processes to achieve goals.
Confident Leader: Inspires others through confident decision-making.
Goal-Oriented: Sets ambitious targets and works to achieve them.
Problem Solver: Finds solutions to complex issues.
WeaknessesIntolerant: Can be overly critical of those with different ambitions.
Impatient: Struggles with patience for slower individuals.
Emotionally Detached: May overlook others’ emotional needs.
Stubborn: Can be inflexible after making a decision.
Career PathsENTJs thrive in leadership roles involving decision-making and problem-solving. Careers in management, business strategy, entrepreneurship, and consulting are ideal.
Assertive (A) vs. Turbulent (T)ENTJ-A (Assertive Commander): More confident in decisions, comfortable with stress, resilient, and persistent in achieving goals.

Big Five Personality Traits Scores

TraitScore (Percentile)Description
Extraversion70th percentileOutgoing and enjoys social interactions. Energized by engaging with people.
Emotional Stability (Neuroticism)48th percentileAverage emotional stability, generally able to handle stress without being overwhelmed.
Agreeableness40th percentileLower in agreeableness, values being direct over people-pleasing. Can be seen as blunt but efficient.
Conscientiousness89th percentileHighly conscientious, disciplined, organized, and goal-oriented.
Intellect/Imagination (Openness)88th percentileVery high in openness, intellectually curious, imaginative, and enjoys exploring new ideas.

Love Languages

Love LanguageWhat You Like to ReceiveWhat You Can GiveCompatibility
Physical TouchYou feel loved through physical connection, such as holding hands, hugging, or cuddling. Physical touch reassures you and makes you feel emotionally secure.You enjoy giving affectionate touches, such as hugs, holding hands, and physical closeness to show care and intimacy.Highly compatible with partners who also value physical intimacy and closeness. Can help build trust and deepen emotional bonds.
Quality TimeYou value undivided attention from loved ones, whether through shared activities, deep conversations, or simply spending time together. Quality time makes you feel connected and appreciated.You give full attention to your loved ones, engaging in activities that bring you closer, like meaningful conversations or sharing experiences.Compatible with partners who prioritize spending focused time together. Helps strengthen the relationship by creating shared memories and understanding.

Astrological Cheat Sheet

AspectSignDescription
Sun SignTaurus ♉Grounded, practical, values stability, comfort, and material/emotional security.
Rising SignLibra ♎Charming, diplomatic, seeks harmony and balance in interactions.
Moon SignGemini ♊Processes emotions through thoughts and communication, curious and adaptable.
DescendantAries ♈Attracted to independent, assertive partners. Seeks energy and drive in relationships.
MercuryGemini ♊Quick-witted, curious, enjoys learning and exchanging ideas.
VenusGemini ♊Values intellectual stimulation in relationships, enjoys variety and excitement.
MarsAries ♈Assertive, direct, energetic, enjoys challenges but can be impulsive.
JupiterScorpio ♏Seeks deep transformation, interested in life’s mysteries and power dynamics.
SaturnPisces ♓Learns lessons around emotional boundaries and balancing dreams with reality.
UranusCapricorn ♑Brings unconventional ideas to career or long-term goals, sudden changes in professional life.
NeptuneCapricorn ♑Dreams tied to ambition, seeks practical ways to achieve ideals, must guard against disillusionment.
PlutoScorpio ♏Deep desire for personal transformation, explores hidden or taboo subjects.
North NodeScorpio ♏Life lesson involves embracing emotional intensity, letting go of control, and seeking empowerment.
ChironVirgo ♍Healing journey around perfectionism, learning to accept imperfection.
MidheavenCancer ♋Drawn to nurturing careers, creating emotional security, or work connected to home/family.